7 things that make a good manager

My manager being out on jury duty has led me to continue to muse about what makes a good manager. I'm thinking about it in terms of software teams, which means managers on car production lines could be very different.

I figure I've had about 20 jobs in my life, starting with the afternoon paper route I took on when I was 10. So, I must have had around 30 direct managers during that time. Surprisingly, I can only think of one or two that I absolutely could not work with. Of course, some were mediocre, but still had valuable good qualities. Several have been outstanding. Perhaps I have been lucky.

Here's my list of the most important things that a manager does, in order:

1. creates an environment that enables you to succeed. This can include both positive attributes (e.g., gives you enough authority to make the decisions that you need to, provides access to the required resources) and negative (e.g., beats back and filters scope changes and new requests, shields you from the political noise).

2. challenges you with "stretch" assignments in new areas. This could be new technology, leadership, or new responsibilities. In any case, you face the requirement to develop new skills, and that keeps it interesting. Of course, you have to be ready for it, and a good manager knows how far to stretch you.

3. ensures you are properly rewarded for your efforts. Many developers I've worked with have a difficult time asking for a raise or expressing their desire to be promoted. A good manager takes care of that and fights hard to get you recognized, while you are toiling away behind the scenes, away from the spotlight.

Both 2 and 3 are really flip sides of the same coin: motivation. There are numerous ways to motivate people, but they essentially boil down to personal development or public recognition. Everyone wants both, but everyone also has priorities, so some people will prefer 2 to 3, and others the reverse.

4. mentors and teaches. I have really appreciated managers that were vastly better than me, and I loved to step back and watch them work. The great ones explained their methods, identified areas where I could improve, and presented these issues to me in a way that encouraged me to do better -- as opposed to feeling worse and inadequate.

5. provides vision. At the "worker bee" level, it can be hard to see where the department is heading, much less the company. You might feel your efforts are Sisyphean, pointless. A good manager provides strategic direction and explains how your efforts contribute to that, while maintaining honesty and authenticity.

6. organizes the team to encourage interaction. Your co-workers represent your best learning opportunities. A group that works together will be more powerful than a bunch of individuals pursuing their own goals. Frequent and positive interactions often require the right structure or the right incentives to encourage them.

7. acts as a friend. Some people have told me they didn't want to be too "chummy" with their workers out of fear that they wouldn't get the respect they needed on the job. I've never understood this. I consider myself friends with all of the best managers I've had -- people I would want to invite to my sister's wedding. I maintain that it's always easier to work with people that you have a friendly rapport with than those you have only a business relationship with. Especially in software development, respect comes from being effective, useful, and knowledgeable, not from having a commanding personality.